Moving to Chicago with kids? It's a big deal, whether you're a family new to the city or seasoned Chicagoans who know the drill! Alliance Moving & Storage understands that a move – especially long-distance moving – can be a mix of excitement and some natural anxiety, even more so for the little ones.
Here at Alliance Moving & Storage, a family-owned company that knows Chicago like the back of its hand (think deep-dish pizza!), we get it. That's why we've put together this guide to help make your residential move with the little (or not-so-little) ones a smooth and positive experience.
How Does Moving Affect a Child?
Moving is a big emotional event for kids. Some will be thrilled about the adventure, while others might feel worried about leaving friends, familiar routines, and their old house behind. Acknowledging and validating these feelings is key. Keep an eye on younger children for signs of clinginess or withdrawal, as they might not have the words to express their emotions.
What’s more, according to the American Journal of Preventive Medicine (2016), childhood with frequent relocations can lead to psychological problems in adulthood. The disruption of friendships, the stress of new environments, and often dealing with stressed-out parents can make children feel less secure.
How to Prepare Kids for a Big Move
The good news is that you can absolutely help your child by preparing them for the move. Involving them in the planning process, just like any other family member, is a fantastic way to start.
Here are some tips to get you started.
1. Share the News (and Make It Fun!)
Don't keep the move a secret! Talk to your kids about the new home, even if they're younger kids. Picture books about moving are your friend. For older children, get them pumped by talking about cool things in the new area – parks, libraries, maybe even a new sports team!
2. Show Your Kids the Place You’re Going to Live In
Share pictures or a virtual tour of their new home and neighborhood, or even take a drive there if it's a local move. Familiarizing your child with their new surroundings can ease anxieties and get them looking forward to the change.
3. Listen to Their Worries
Acknowledge and validate your child's feelings about the move. Let them know it's okay to feel sad or scared about leaving friends and familiar surroundings.
4. Put Them in Charge of Their New Space
Let your child help design their new room. This gives them a sense of ownership and control over their space in the new home.
5. Let Them Contribute to Your Moving Checklist
Create a comprehensive moving checklist together with your child. This can help them feel involved and prepared for the big day.
Now that the moving wheels are in motion, let's talk about making the whole experience positive and enjoyable for everyone – especially the kids!
6. Get Pro Help
To start with, hiring professional movers can take a huge weight off your shoulders. Our experienced crew will handle the loading & unloading, packing & unpacking, and help you with furniture assembly & disassembly as well as heavy item moving – so you can focus on keeping your kids happy. If you're moving from afar, we also offer long-distance moving services!
7. Fun Breaks Are Must-Haves
Moving doesn't have to be all work and no play. Schedule some fun activities in between packing boxes! Explore your new Chicago neighborhood, visit a local library for storytime, or have a picnic in a beautiful park. These little adventures will keep everyone's spirits up and create lasting happy memories about the move.
8. Let Them Be Mini-Movers
Give your kids a sense of ownership over the move by involving them in the process. Let them pack a special box with their favorite things, choose new decor for their room, or even help pick out furniture for their new space. Feeling included will get them excited about their new home.
9. Moving Supplies Aren't Toys
Moving boxes and packing materials can be tempting for curious kids, but they can also be dangerous. Explain to your children that these are for the grown-ups to use, and keep a watchful eye to ensure they're not using them for playtime.
10. Designate a Safe Zone
With doors opening and closing in both your old and new homes, it's crucial to establish a safe space for your children to play. This could be a designated room or play area where they can stay occupied and supervised.
11. Pack a "Survival Kit"
Moving day can be long and unpredictable. Pack a dedicated bag with all the essentials your children might need throughout the day, such as snacks, drinks, entertainment like books or small toys, a comfort item like a favorite stuffed animal, and a change of clothes.
12. Pack a "First Night" Box
Ease the transition to the new house by having a special box ready for your children when you arrive. Fill it with comforting items like pajamas, a favorite blanket, a nightlight, and familiar bedtime stories. This will help them settle in and feel more at home on their first night.
13. Kid Care Is Key
Moving day can get hectic quickly. If you have young children, consider arranging for childcare to keep them safe and entertained while you focus on the logistics. Older kids can help with some tasks, but be sure to include breaks and fun activities throughout the day to keep their spirits high.
14. Unpack the Essentials First
Upon arriving at your new Chicago home, make unpacking your children's essentials a top priority. This means setting up their beds, and unpacking clothes, toiletries, and their favorite toys. Surrounding them with familiar items will help them feel more at ease in their new space.
15. Be Patient and Understanding
Moving is a major adjustment, especially for younger children. Be patient with their emotions and allow them time to adapt. Listen to any concerns they may have about leaving friends or their old home, and offer plenty of reassurance and support.
16. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff (Especially During a Moving Sale)
Moving often involves decluttering and parting with belongings. While it can be tough for kids to say goodbye to old toys or clothes, consider holding a moving sale. It's a great way to get rid of unwanted items and even earn some extra cash for new Chicago adventures.
Remember, if your child is particularly attached to something you planned to sell, don't force it. The memories and a smooth transition are more valuable than a few dollars.
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17. Embrace the Fresh Start
Moving to a new city presents an exciting opportunity for a fresh start. Is there a hobby your child has always wanted to try? Perhaps there's a new sports team or a music class in your Chicago neighborhood. Encourage your child to explore new interests and embrace the possibilities that come with a change of scenery.
18. Talk About the New School
If your child is starting a new school, address any anxieties they may have by having open conversations about the transition.
Discuss the school's programs, the chance to make new friends, and even explore the school's website or social media pages together. Looking at pictures of classrooms, playgrounds, or extracurricular activities can pique their interest and generate excitement about their new learning environment.
19. Capture the Memories
Moving is a significant life event. Encourage your children to document their experience by taking pictures throughout the process. They can capture photos of their old room, packing with you, exploring their new neighborhood, and settling into their new rooms. These pictures will become cherished mementos, allowing your family to fondly look back on the move and celebrate this new chapter together.
Supporting Kids in Adapting After a Move
To make your child’s new house feel like home, you can help them create new routines and friendships.
20. Throw a Housewarming Party
Once you've settled in, why not throw a housewarming party? It's a fantastic way to celebrate your new home, introduce your family to your neighbors, and create a fun-filled experience for your children.
21. Keep the Routine Rolling
Moving can disrupt familiar routines, which can stress kids out. Try to stick to familiar routines as much as possible, like mealtimes, bedtime stories, or even a favorite TV show. This normalcy will help them feel grounded as they adjust to their new surroundings.
22. Let Kids Make New Buddies
Making new friends is a crucial part of feeling at home in a new place. Help your kids connect with other children in your Chicago neighborhood. Look into local sports teams, social clubs, or activities that align with their interests. Their new school may also offer opportunities for them to meet new classmates. Don't forget to introduce your kids to your neighbors, too!
Ready to Make Moving with a Baby a Breeze?
Moving with children doesn't have to be overwhelming. By following these tips and partnering with Alliance Moving & Storage for your Chicago move, you can ensure a smooth and positive experience for the entire family.
Contact us today for a free quote and let us help you build new memories in your new home!
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